Friday, February 29, 2008

Just Shy of Two Years: 23 Months

Ava turned 23 months old yesterday. Hard to believe that almost two years have gone by since she's arrived!

She spent her first night in her "big-girl bed" on Wednesday night. We bought a safety side-rail so she won't fall out of bed during the night. She really seemed proud that she slept there. We have a step stool so she can climb up by herself. We timed this so she won't feel too slighted when baby boy arrives later this summer, like he's taking over her crib.



















She wanted her nails painted a few days ago, and chose bright pink nail polish. She was ever-so-happy with the way they, and her toenails, turned out. She was a very good customer, sitting completely still while they dried. I was amazed she sat still that long!?! The next day at day care, her teachers said she really enjoyed showing everyone her nails. :-)

During the past few days, she has been saying more complete sentences: "I'm cleaning," "I'm eating," "I'm walking," and other sentences. She absolutely loves the book "Five Little Monkeys Jumping On the Bed," and will say "No more monkeys dabin ah da bed." It's entirely too cute when she says it. She is really enunciating well these days, forcing herself to say "YESSSSS" and "Q,R,ESSSSSSSS". She's using more please and thank you's on her own, too. I continue to be amazed at the open-ended questions she answers, when I ask. You can see the wheels spinning in her head...




















Lately everything isn't just an "elbow", it's "Ava's elbow", "Ava's cereal". She loves Strawbery Delight Frosted Mini Wheats for breakfast. She loves to dance, requesting that we "dance, dance, dance", and also likes to do "circles" with Daddy (Doug pulls her up in the air by her arms and spins her around). She wears Daddy out requesting circles...

Ava seems to be more outgoing lately, giving hugs to more people than she has previously. It's cute to see her interact with complete strangers at the grocery store, replying "Hi!" (very socially) to them. She continues to sing at the top of her lungs in any store through which we peruse. People crack up at her loud singing voice, and smile. Ava doesn't even notice.



















The other day Doug was getting Ava out of her car seat and said "Okey dokey", to which she replied "arti-chokey!" I guess we use this phrase all-too-often in our household?

She is becoming more particular about what she eats, but still wants to try new things and determine if she will like that food. She is also insisting on her independence more these days. We continue to work on the "first-time obedience" thing, so she will comply when we ask her to "come here" (as this could be a safety issue in a parking lot, etc).



















We removed the gate at the bottom of our stairway, and she frequently "practices" going up and down the stairs. We've only had one spill down three stairs at this point, so we're hoping that will make her more careful in the future. The gate still remains on her bedroom door, so she can't get out at night and potentially fall down the stairs.

I think I might be confusing Ava, saying that I am a girl, but there is a baby boy in my tummy. She normally will say that she is a girl, but I think since I've been mentioning the baby boy in my tummy, she's a bit confused. :-)


























I think we will be ready to revisit potty-training again soon. She announces now when she is "poopy", and will even crawl up onto the diaper-changing pad after announcing it. So, I think it's about time. :-) She likes to sit on the potty occasionally, but hasn't "gone" lately. Guess we'll have to work on that!

It's interesting how well-mannered she is in stores, etc. She doesn't like to venture too far away from me / us when shopping, and likes to tag-along right next to the cart. She is this way everywhere we go, surprisingly. Other people have commented on how she isn't a "wanderer". When in the store, she does like to get out of the cart by requesting "walking?"



















Let the good times roll!

With our love,
Shelly, Doug and Ava

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Visitors: Grandpa Bill & Grandma Pam

My Mom and Bill came down for a visit on their way down to Georgia, a few weekends ago. They spent a few days in Florida, with Bill’s sister and brother-in-law, and then returned for a visit with us for a few days. We had a great time while they were here!

Ava took her first trip to the circus the first weekend that Mom and Bill were in town. We went to the Ringling Brothers Barnum & Bailey Circus at Philips Arena. I haven’t been to the circus since I was seven, when some of the “Griffith cousins” (minus Benjamin, who lived in TN), went with Uncle Bill (a Shriner) and Aunt Lillian! This go-around, Doug wasn’t too enthused about heading to the circus. The version he remembered from his younger days was half-baked with visions of creepy “carnies”  (Carnival folk).

Ava and Grandma Pam waiting in line before attending the circus


















The circus has changed since I was seven. There was a huge flat screen (apropos considering we were watching at “Phillips Arena”) that flashed background movement / lights, etc. We got to watch “Bello”, a non-speaking / hair-product junkie / nice clown attempt many of the circus acts successfully. Circus clowns, elephants, tigers, dancing dogs, white and black horses, zebras, tightrope-walkers, teeterboard-acrobats, and two guys who balanced themselves in the equivalent of two flying hamster wheels on an axis. Grandma and Grandpa prepped Ava for the event with a circus-themed book that remains her favorite weeks later. Ava was entirely amazed with the first half of the circus, but by the end she seemed to be satisfied with people-watching the crowd behind our seats. J She was probably on sensory-overload, by that point.

Ringling Brothers Fun


















Elephants


















Elephants


















Notice the "spotters" on the ground...


















Craziness at great heights


















Tigers


















Talented tigers


















We ventured to Chuck E. Cheese, where Ava really enjoyed playing in the tunnels / play area. Somehow I got conned into pushing her up the steps so she could get into the tunnels. Another little girl (about four, I’d say?) seemed to be claustrophobic, so I helped her through the tunnels. I found it interesting that my almost-two-year-old daughter was running around the tunnels at lightning speed, without any fear. There I was, 5 ½ months pregnant, crawling around in kiddie-tunnels. J Grandma Pam and Grandpa Bill also took on this responsibility when they took Ava to McDonald’s Play Place one day while I worked. Ava now requests that we go there by name, “Pay-Pace? Pay-Pace?”

Ava is very fond of Chuck...


















Ava on a ride at Chuck E. Cheese

























I took up residence on the steps... Ava went down the slide so fast, I just decided to stay in one spot!

























We also went to the park, took lots of naps (Grandkid and grandparents alike :-)), went to Boneheads, went to the mall and rode the carousel, made heart-shaped cookies on sticks (post-Valentine’s Day festivities), enjoyed people-watching at THE BEST WAFFLE HOUSE in North America (exit 265 in Marietta, GA :-)), danced like crazy people around the living room, and just had a great time being together.

Heart-shaped cookies on sticks - Can you guess which Ava decorated?


















Thank you Grandpa Bill and Grandma Pam for making the trek down to see us! We love you, and always enjoy our time together. Since your visit, Ava continues to ask for “Grandpa? Grandpa?”, and has pointed to different seats at our breakfast table and at our guest bedroom, asking for “Grandpa? Grandma?” She misses you!

With love,
Shelly, Doug and Ava

Holy Roller

As of late, Ava has really been cranking out the church tunes. Her all-time favorite seems to be "Hallelu, Hallelu, Hallelu, Hallelujah! Praise ye the Lord!" (Sounds like "Pray Ye Loh"). She loves to sing "Deep and wide, deep and wide, there's a fountain flowing deep and wide", too.

The other day we were on a short trip to the grocery store. She LOVES to ride in the "car cart" while we shop. While shopping yesterday, she belted out (at the top of her lungs) "Hallelu, Hallelu, Hallelu!" through the aisles of the grocery store, not giving a care for anyone who might hear her little voice.

We have been going to a (free!) "Tots and Tunes" play date at a local church, before church on Wednesdays (6:00-6:45). Ava has really enjoyed playing the instruments they have while dancing / jumping around to the music. Tonight, when I was carrying her on our way in, I asked if she was excited to sing songs and dance around. She shook her head yes (with twinkly-smile eyes), and then gave me the biggest hug. It was so sweet to see that she seemed to appreciate going, and was so excited about it!

I read a "Mommy Hugs" book to her yesterday, and gave her hugs each time the book prompted it. It became a game, where I asked for a hug, and she ran toward me to give me a hug. Now, even in the middle of meals, she asks for a "huck" and opens her arms wide. Who would deny such an opportunity, even if spaghetti sauce is involved? :-)

On a different note, I have been remiss to include many pictures since we've upgraded to a digital SLR camera... I'm not sure why it seemed easier in the past??? I'll get up to speed one of these days.... Sorry!

Hope you're having a great week!

With love and hucks,
Shelly, Doug and Ava

Monday, February 18, 2008

IT'S A....

BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am seriously shocked that we are having a boy! This pregnancy has been EXACTLY the same as far as symptoms go, etc. Daddy Doug and I are both on cloud nine! This will be the first boy to carry on the "Carey" name for this generation.

During the ultrasound, the little guy wasn't the least bit shy about letting us know he is definitely a "he"!

It is still taking some time to sink in, as I was very convinced I was having a girl (as all symptoms seemed to indicate).

We haven't even LOOKED at names yet, but hopefully we'll have 20 weeks or so to finally settle on a good one. The name "Elmo" is not currently in the running, although "big sissy" Ava thinks otherwise...

Please keep this pregnancy in your prayers, and that he is born a strong, healthy, sweet boy! Looking at everything on the ultrasound reassured us that he is currently healthy, and swimming along just fine.

All our love,
Shelly, Doug and Ava

Friday, February 01, 2008

She Counts to 10!

About a week ago, I spent a day with Ava, not taking her to day care. On days such as this, we end-up going through every possible toy / activity in the house, it seems!

This day, she was particularly interested in the Bible Flash Cards that Grandma Dolly and Grandpa Dean gave to us a while back. There are numbers on the cards that correspond with the number of items on the cards. So, "five loaves", etc. We started counting, and Ava surprised me by counting up to TEN! My mouth dropped to the floor, as I don't think we've ever been past "four".

She has been singing her ABC's all the time lately, too. It's particularly cute to listen to her pause and say "Q, R, SSSSSSSSS". Hearing her try to say "W" is also pretty funny. I know I've GOT to get this on video before she masters the alphabet!

She likes to sing "Jesus wa me" (Jesus Loves Me), "Deep and Wide" and "Where is thumbkin" on a regular basis. What's funny is that I never sing "Where is thumbkin" at home. When I picked Ava up at day care one day, I asked if they sang "Frere Jacques". The teacher said "no". I asked if they sang "Where is Thumbkin", and she said "Well, it is on the CD we listen to all the time." Funny that Ava sings the musical notes close enough for me to know that that's the song that she's singing. She does love to sing!

We had a fun afternoon filled with finger-painting yesterday. She seems to enjoy the feeling of the paint on her hands more than decorating a piece of paper with the paint. :-)

I will be sure to post some pictures as soon as I can remember to take them!

With love,
Shelly

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Ten Years!!!

Today Doug and I celebrate TEN wonderful years of marriage! We're in the double-digits, now! I can't believe how quickly the time has flown by. Each day is a new adventure in life with Doug. We plan on celebrating with a couple's massage (a pre-natal one for me) and dinner out on Saturday, as some good friends have offered to take care of Ava for the night. On a future anniversary, when living closer to grandparents ;-), we may try to get away for a cruise or nice trip somewhere. Saving that for another year or so, possibly.




It all started with getting married on Superbowl weekend on a super-cold day in Michigan. The church parking lot had to be plowed for the wedding! We both wanted to hold-out for an April wedding, but because Doug was already living in GA and I was in MI missing my man, we decided on a January wedding.

It was bittersweet, saying "hello" at the wedding to so many faces of those that we loved, and literally driving away in a moving truck, moving to Georgia, the next day. I wouldn't trade our time spent together here in Georgia for anything. It's been quite the extended honeymoon, in my opinion. We've learned to depend on only each other and ourselves during good times, and difficult times. I think it has only strengthened our marriage.

It was cute...today our anniversary cards to each other were very similar. They both referred to all that we've been through within the past 10 years. Here is the quick list: Getting married, moving to Georgia, honeymoon to Cancun, acclimating ourselves to a new city (where roads are never straight and all are named some variation of "Peachtree"), getting new jobs, continuing on with school, apartment-dwelling, many fun road-trips to new and interesting places, scrimping every last penny to save for a house (Taco Bell and the dollar theatre were quite the reserved treat!), moving into our new "treehouse", more schooling, GRE exams, ARE exams X 11, PMP exams, real estate exams, two college graduations, job changes, long walks by the "Gog" (the synagogue) and back, an amazing trip to Europe, finding out we were pregnant, the birth of Ava, adjusting to life as new parents, loving our little baby-turned-little girl, finding out we are pregnant with a second child, and just enjoying every minute of life together.

With each passing day I love Doug more and more. I look forward to 80+ more years of marriage, and an eternity spent with him. He is, and will always be, my sweeetheart! I have learned so much from him, his attitude toward life, and what a devoted family man he is. I lucked-out when he came into my life.

Doug, I will love you forever. I hope you have the best of anniversaries yet, today!

All my love,
Shelly

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Hillbilly Ava

Ava has been an absolute hoot lately. Her affection for tearing-off her socks and shoes has not waned. In the chilliest of temperatures, off come the socks. A true hillbilly. Even funnier, she was wearing a pair of denim overalls the other day, rolled-up six inches as they're too long, pulled-off her socks and shoes and decided to take-up harmonica. She seems to do pretty well at it. Watch out, Elwood Blues!






Her growth seems to occur in explosive spurts. It's as if she's taking everything in for a few weeks and finally decides to confidently relay her newfound learnings. Over Christmas she started counting and could recite all colors. At day care, they say she "knows her colors like a rock star", better than all other kids in the class. Over Christmas she could say Grampy and Grambee (Grandma), but the week after she could say both "Grandpa" and "Grandma" very clearly. (Of course after we returned home from the Grandmas and Grandpas! :-) She can now jump with both feet off the ground. She knows an increasing number of shapes (currently knows circle and square), and actually counted to four the other day.

She is entirely amazed by the story of Naaman (the blind man) in the Bible. She has an illustrated children's Bible in which there is a picture of Naaman with mud on his eyes. She continually flips to that page (specifically) and repeatedly asks "what's that?" (uh-dat?).

Her tolerance for repetition is unmatched. Over the Christmas holiday, Grandma and Grandpa Carey got to experience the Frosty the Snowman DVD on a daily basis, almost to the point of exhaustion. Whenever Sesame Street is mentioned (or is on t.v.), she consistently asks for "Count". She LOVES the Count, and enjoys immitating him ("One! Two! Three! Ahh, ahh, ahh!").

Ava is ever the girly-girl, applying lip gloss (Bonne Bell lip smackers) and hand lotion whenever possible. She likes for her hair to be put in a ponytail or pig-tails. She loves to brush her teeth on her own (she crawls up the stepstool, reaches for her toothbrush and turns the water on/off by herself). Whenever she gets out of the bathtub at night, she runs into the living room and announces "I'm naked!" (sounds more like "I naked!"). It's pretty funny :-)

She is a bit more insistent lately on being independent, especially when going down the stairway. She doesn't seem too hung-up on doing things "her way" yet, fortunate for us! She does well with her manners, too, saying "please" and "thank you" often. It has been entirely too cute to watch her become "responsive" verbally. One day in November I made a request of Ava and followed it up with an "okay?," and she responded "okay". It was the cutest thing. She is much more into responding verbally these days.

She jibber-jabbers and holds conversations with us, thinking that we understand "Ava talk". She knows the word "church" and when asked who we learn about at church, she replies emphatically "Jee-jah!"

She giggles with glee when watching our friends' baby slide down the slide at the park. It's cute to watch her be happy for other kids. I don't know if I've mentioned this on the blog before, but over Thanksgiving, I mentioned to Doug that "maybe we can go to the p-a-r-k later." Ava said "the PARK! YAY! The PARK!" Yikes. Maybe we've spelled that word a little too often around her?

She is very courageous in the food department. She will try most anything that is on Mommy or Daddy's plate (at least once). She LOVES corn on the cob, rice, any kind of pasta, oatmeal with dried cranberries (our usual breakfast), cookies, crackers, most vegetables (corn, carrots, green beans, snap peas, squash), and any kind of fruit. She eats a very varied diet. She eats mixed vegetables by the handful, as if they are candy. She hasn't yet learned to appreciate broccoli or cauliflower, but we haven't exposed her to broccoli very much, either. I recently heard that a child needs to be exposed to something 15 times in order to acquire a taste for something. We're working on the broccoli...

Because this blog serves as Ava's baby book, I'm also noting that Ava weighed 24 lbs 3 oz at a doc appt when she was 21 1/2 months old. This after a very full belly of Wheat Thins and juice! ;-)

With love,
Shelly

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Christmas 2007

What a fun holiday it was this year! We hope you enjoyed the holidays with your family, as well!

Ava was excited about the holidays this year, watching “Frah-tee the Noman” at every opportunity. On a sad note, we ACCIDENTALLY left the DVD at Grandma and Grandpa Carey’s house, before returning to Georgia. (Can’t you tell I’m torn-up about it? ;-) Ava enjoyed looking for “Tanta” in every nook and cranny of her grandparents’ houses. While opening presents, she looked like an old pro, ripping into presents, although pieces of wrapping paper came off in one inch increments.

She immensely enjoyed playing with the kitchen that Grandma Pam and Grandpa Bill bought for her, even foregoing her nap. I think we counted that she spent seven consecutive hours playing in her kitchen. She also liked everyone running around the coffee table. If we weren’t running, she would point at the table as if to say “Get down here… you need to do this, too!” Of course Grandpa and Grandma complied, even if already in a dizzied haze.

She giggled with delight while Grandpa Dean tickled her. When he would ask where she wanted to be tickled: “Here, or here?” she would reply by pointing to the place she wanted to be tickled. Nothing like volunteering for it, huh? She was overjoyed while dancing with cousin Sophia, who liked to swing her around, dancing to Christmas music. Ava danced like she had done this before somewhere? Grandma Dolly lovingly fed Ava spaghetti, which was quickly gobbled up. After Grandma Dolly treated her to a few Reese’s pieces, Ava was amped-up and ready to party! I think she surprised all of her grandparents with the sheer quantity of food she can eat. She definitely works it off!

Ava enjoyed playing with the cash register, the crazy musical Christmas decoration, and miniature xylophone at Grandma and Grandpa Carey’s house. She liked watching cartoons with Grandpa Carey and loved when Grandma Carey fed breakfast to her. Grandma Carey says she may need to get a part-time job to pay for the groceries Ava eats! :-) Aunt Tracy helped Ava color with her markers at the kitchen table, too. Ava seemed to really enjoy the peanut butter cookies on their table, requesting them by name: “Cookie! Cookie!” Ava also liked to bowl with the plastic bowling set the Careys gave to her. When all pins didn’t come down, she would kick them down. She would hand her guitar to Grandpa Carey, prompting him to sing in his loudest voice. Ava always wanted him to sing more! :-)

Before we left yesterday, Ava was calling the grandparents by name: “Grampy”… “Grandma” sounded more similar to “Grampy” than not, but is somewhat decipherable. She also was able to say “Tracy!” She would quickly run toward each grandparent with a smile on her face for a big hug, too. Ava definitely has her colors down-pat by now, and she EVEN COUNTS! While laying in bed each morning, we would hear Ava reciting what she knew while laying in the crib: “one, two, three”… “grampy, grandma”… “red, yew-woah”, orange, white, byoo”. I couldn’t believe that she actually started counting. We'll definitely have to get this on video tape. She also holds up her fingers to display the number one. Putting her hand up for two, she curls her fingers and crosses them. It’s pretty funny!

She officially puts two words together now, too. In the past she has said phrases like “thank you,” “I don’t want it,” “hot cocoa”, etc, but she started putting two words together herself now, repeating “yellow car” over and over and over again… She will turn to you and babble jibberish, like she is holding a conversation with you. She now responds vocally when we ask her a question by saying "yeah!" or "okay!" enthusiastically.

We stayed in Michigan for a good ten days. While there, it was amazing to see how much Ava grew physically (I think she got taller), as well as how closely she seemed to bond with everyone. It warmed my heart to see her grow closer to family.

We were able to enjoy two nights out, going out for dinner one night, and out for New Year’s the next night, thanks to the Careys. Doug and I didn’t know what to do at dinner, as we’re so used to shoveling food into our own mouths while trying to prevent potential Ava spills, etc. It was nice to act like an adult for a few!

We’ll be sure to post pictures later.

Happy New Year!
Shelly

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Christmas / Holiday 2007 Pictures

Our tree in GA


Ava playing in her new kitchen for the first time




She played with this gift (her kitchen) for 7 hours straight, foregoing a nap when she opened it. As is evidenced by this picture, she didn't stop moving while playing with it.


Daymian


Jordan with heelies!


My cousin Ginger and me


Candy cane pirates


When this green toy busted, it got put to good use with Daymian, Jordan and Doug...


Ginger and Grammy


Like I said, it got put to good use...


Shane and Sherry celebrating Christmas


Grandma Pam and Ava


Is this an advertisement for this kid's kitchen, or what?


Yet another advertisement...


Yet another advertisement...


A happy girl...


A happy girl


A very happy girl!


When asked, "what does a baby say?", she replies "waah!" with this face...


Kisses for Momma...


The Carey Christmas


The Careys gave this bowling set to Ava. She seemed to really like it! When she didn't hit the pins with the ball, she kicked the rest down. Spare!


Celebrating Christmas Eve


Ava playing with the cash register that the Careys gave to her. She looked like an official grocery employee, donning her apron. Grandma Carey played with a cash register when she was little, too!


Grandpa Dean harassing Ava


Grandma Dolly and Ava checking-out Rudolph


My sister and me on Christmas Day. She wasn't feeling good that day at all, but was nice enough to take this picture...


An ornament Dad made for us this year on his lathe...


Olivia


Sophia dressed ever-so pretty!


Sisters: Sophie and Olivia


The Griffith Christmas tree this year


Jordan (he looks SO grown-up in this picture!)


Kristen and Chris


Aunt Freda and Uncle Dave


Paul and Rachel with little one Luke


Kristen and Adam


My littlest cousin Rebecca, looking so grown up!


Grandma Burnis showing off the ornament that my Dad made for her


The Griswald's live near Rochester, MI!


Couldn't resist, we had to have our picture taken near the crazy place!


My sister's nickname for me since high school has always been "Peace", because of the hippy clothes I wore...