Monday, August 01, 2011

Grandfather's Book

My Grandfather Clinton Lawson died in 1991.  I was 15 years old.  His example and legacy live on daily, through the memories we have of him.  He was one of the most Godly men I have ever known!  He was a friend to everyone, a quiet leader, a faithful husband (Liam's middle name is Grandfather's middle name of "Truman," which means "Faithful Man"), an avid bike rider, had quite a sense of humor and did an amazing job documenting his life.


In the years before he died, I remember him going through family pictures with me, telling me the names of people in the pictures.  He had a book that was chock-full of his memories, documenting his experience in the Navy in WWII, when he served over in Papua, New Guinea, and other phases in his life.  The book is nothing short of amazing.  He even has the bus ticket from the day he joined the Navy, leaving his hometown of Rockholds, Kentucky, when he was 17 years-old.  In addition to this scrapbook, he also wrote his own 39-page biography.  I cherish this information so much.


Before Grandfather died, he gave the book to my Mom, asking that she make a copy for Uncle Danny.  That was 20 years ago.  My Mom attempted to copy pictures from the book at CVS, but it became VERY costly, and that was before digital scanners were fairly affordable.  I know Uncle Danny has asked my Mom about the book in the past.  My Mom didn't really often want to get it out, as the pictures were out of the book and she didn't want to mess up the order. 


This past Christmas, I told my Mom I would like to take on the project of completing the book for everyone, as a secret.  :)  She gave the book to me.  We bought a new copier / scanner and printer, to get the job done.  I scanned each of the pages of his scrapbook and also scanned in Grandfather's separate biography.  I also added quite a few different family history pages (in Powerpoint, etc), as well as some supporting documentation on genealogy. 


My Grandfather always told me we were related to an Indian Chief named Standing Door.  It was my goal to find out more information on Standing Door and include that information in the book.  I did find out that we may be related to a Chief Standing Deer, who is documented on a monument in a cemetery in Kentucky.  Unfortunately (but fortunately) many Lawsons are searching to resolve the unanswered question regarding this relation.  I was able to include all of my genealogy research, including Chief Standing Deer information.  I know that if Grandfather were alive, he would probably be having a ball with http://www.ancestry.com/, trying to find the answer to that question...


I found a very cool Web site called http://www.zazzle.com/.  I was able to somewhat easily design customized three-ring binders that included Grandfather's Navy picture.  His name is written in scroll-like script on the binding.  On the back, in scroll-like font, it says "Families are forever".  I was amazed at how nice it turned-out!  Doug was patient enough to show me how to do some things in PhotoShop, to make the book look phenomenal.  We created a nice cover page on which each different phase of Grandfather's life is represented:


  • A picture of Grandfather as a baby with his Mom and sister Jean,
  • A picture of Grandfather with Grandmother, around the date of their marriage,
  • A picture of Grandfather with his family (Grandmother, Uncle Danny and Mom),
  • A picture of Grandfather with his grandkids (me, Sherry, Jamin and Ginger), when camping.
I wanted everything to be JUST right with this book.  I wanted to make Grandfather proud.  So, even if something might've "looked" fine but I felt like it needed to be tweaked a little bit, I couldn't let it sit without correcting it...  I told Doug that this will be one of the most MONUMENTAL things I have done in my life, of which I am proud. 


All of the pages are in clear sheet protectors and most are also on nice photo paper within this custom 3-ring binder.  Ideally I would've liked to have the book bound, but didn't feel I should do that;  I wanted to ensure family members could remove or add to it, if they chose to do so.  I made / included a cd of each of the pages in the book, and also included a cd to which I added family pictures, census information, marriage records, etc.  I tucked these two cd's into the back pocket of the binder.  I also created a section in which gravestones of family members were listed by cemetery location.  I had to do some research to find the GPS coordinates of graveyards in the middle of rural Kentucky.  Easier said than done...


We had a trip planned to go to Michigan in late July.  My goal was to be able to present this book when we were in Michigan.  I made the deadline!  I worked on the book through the beginning of July, tweaking things.  I made seven original copies of the book; one for Grandmother, Mom, Uncle Danny, Sherry, Jamin, Ginger and myself.  We were able to present the books to everyone the Saturday we were in Michigan.  Everyone seemed to sincerely appreciate the book. 


It's hard to believe that he has been gone 20 years.  What touched my heart was to see my nephew Jordan reading through the book, learning more about his Great Grandfather.  I pray through reading it, it will be made evident to him how faithfully Grandfather followed God and provided for his family.  I pray his example lives on for generations.  See below for highlights from the book.


Peace, love and great family memories,
Shelly, Doug, Ava and Liam

They're all done!  Seven copies later...

The front cover


Clinton Lawson:  A Branch of the Lawson & Murray Family Tree

The back cover:


The binding:

Doug helped out quite a bit with this page.  We took a picture of the Oak Alley Plantation and put pictures of the different phases of Grandfather's life.  Honestly, it just worked out that way!


Close up of the cover page pictures.  I tried to keep any typing or writing that Grandfather did, to keep the book as true as possible to the original.  I enlarged his signature in some places, as well.


I created a color-coded Powerpoint slide with the different sides of Grandfather's family tree, to make the family tree more easily understandable...

Another Powerpoint slide I created, that has his relatives labeled by couple / generation.


Grandfather's biography, page 1 of 39. 


"I was born on March 13, 1926 on Good Friday at Corn Creek..."


This is the portion I made sure to note, that wasn't Grandfather's, relaying my attempt to resolve the unanswered question:  "Are we related to Chief Standing Door?"


I made sure to clearly identify which pages Grandfather didn't include originally...


This is the list of family gravestones and their location.  It took quite some time to put together, but hopefully it will be useful to someone one day.


Grandfather's signature.  He had such beautiful handwriting, I think!  I enlarged this fairly big and was sure to include this as the last page.


This is a collage of pictures of Grandfather and Grandmother together.  The upper left-hand picture was actually taken on their first date in 1946.  The lower right-hand picture is one taken on their 40th wedding anniversary trip to Niagra Falls.  :)  Doug helped teach me some PhotoShop skills to put this together.  I love this sheet.


A picture of Grandfather, his sister and cousins taken in 1935 on Grandfather Murray's porch.

A picture of Grandfather taken when he was in the Navy.


Grandfather had labeled a map of the places and dates he served in or near Papua, New Guinea when he was overseas. 


He kept some very interesting documents, newspaper clippings from WWII.


Very cool!


Grandfather's Navy picture.  I used this picture for the cover of the binder.


Currency from different places he visited while serving in the Navy.




Medals he received for serving.


This is a picture taken on Grandfather and Grandmother's first date, to a carnival, in 1946.  I love that they were able to capture this moment!


Va-va-voom!  Grandmother on her birthday. She was 17 in this picture.


My favorite picture of the two of them.  I think this was taken around the time they were married.


They were married before this picture was taken.  The picture was taken in Detroit, MI.


Love this picture of Grandfather. :)


Taken in Pontiac, MI.


A picture of the family.  Mom would've been almost two. :)

I created this page to show the different Lawson generations. Although Grandfather's Dad lived in Kentucky, I was able to meet him at least once. 


Amazingly, Grandfather documented the different generations of ancestors and what he knew about them.  All of the research I've done checks out entirely with his information.  I think it's pretty cool that he was interested in writing this down.

A Boyfriend?

Ava and her friend Jack Passman have been attending day care together since they were 15 months old.  Out of everyone in her school, she has known Jack the longest.  We've attended his birthday party and have also seen his parents on a daily basis and at the day care's holiday concerts.


Jack is shown in the bottom row, to the far right, directly in front of Ava.  He is ADORABLE!


Fast forward to this month, when Ava mentions "me and Jack kissed at school today."  She was smiling and bashful when she said it.  Whaaa?  Come again?  I tried not to overreact, because I didn't want to make any assumptions at this age.  :)  I know it's entirely sweet and innocent...


Me:  Where did he kiss you?
Ava:  On my cheek, right here.
Me:  Oh.  Were there any teachers in the room when that happened?
Ava:  Yes, Mrs. Alicia was in the room, but we hid because we didn't want her to see us.
Me:  Okay...Whose idea was it first to do that?
Ava:  We both decided. 
Me:  But someone had to have the idea first?
Ava:  No, we both decided.
Me:  Ava, okay, but we probably shouldn't do that again. 
Ava:  Okay, Mom.


I tried to take it all in before I went telling her the wrong thing.  A little advice from Mom always helps, too.  At this age, it's sweet and cute.  I didn't want to make her feel ashamed, but did want her to realize that we shouldn't go around kissing every boy in the world .  I remember one of Philip and April Brackney's little girls running around the lobby at Rochester C of C, lips in a kiss-pout, trying to kiss a little boy.  It was cute, but she was one determined  aggressive little girl! 


The next morning, while getting ready for school:


Me:  "Ava, so about the kissing thing yesterday..." 
Ava:  Mom, I know, I know.
Me:  I just wanted to let you know that Mommy and Daddy kiss because we're married and older.  It's not a gross thing, but you should definitely wait until you're older, okay?
Ava:  I know, I'm not going to do that anymore. :-)


*phew!* 


Within a few days, she mentioned to me that Jack wanted to marry her.  I listened, didn't judge.  I definitely didn't want to make her feel "icky" about it.  I want her to always be able to come to me and talk to me, which she seems very comfortable with doing now.  Bedtime is the choice time for Ava to ask me the list of questions she might not want to ask in front of everyone.  It's so cute.  :)


The day after Jack told Ava he wanted to marry her, he told her they should probably go on a date.  I can only guess that someone told Jack "you can't just get married...you have to go on a date with someone first!"  Ha.  He is also one of the sweetest, cutest, blue-eyed blonde haired boys you'll ever meet. 


They have been in "summer camp" lately, with some kids that are older.  There is one eight year-old girl that may be playing match-maker with Ava and Jack, too.  So I would say they've had a little help.


Peace, love and five year-old smooches,
Shelly, Doug, Ava and Liam

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Pets! ;-)

Ava and I were recently picking something up at the School Box store, to complete her school supply list for kindergarten.  While we were paying, we noticed some small (African dwarf) frogs in an aquarium on the counter.  Ava REALLY seemed to like them.  I thought…I can HANDLE a pet like this! 
Sidenote:  I would secretly love a dog.  Not so secretly, I do not desire a dog's tookus to be dragged across our carpet, nor find little surprises throughout the house.  No tanks. 
I inquired about the frogs.  The price was right.  You feed them twice a week, clean their cage once every three months and DO NOT HANDLE THEM.  They don’t grow any bigger than they are at this point.  My kind of pet!!!!  So Rocky and Sunshine joined the ranks of our family in late July.  Rocky is the darker of the two frogs, Sunshine the lighter frog.  Ava named both. 
Mr. Matthew (our neighbor) “watched” them for us when we were in Michigan.   He, Kate and Scarlett did a great job!  Thanks, Celender family!


The milk jug next to the aquarium, so you can see how small they really are!

We’re enjoying our reptile friends!
Peace, love and itty-bitty frogs,
Shelly, Doug, Ava and Liam

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Shelly's Jellies: Jam On It!

This year I have been infatuated obsessed with canning things.  I bought a Better Homes and Gardens canning magazine, which looked like some fun.  They had quite a few odd sounding recipes in the magazine, which I HAD to make.  120+ jars later, I had quite the stockpile of jams, jellies, goodies when we went to Michigan. I gave some to Mom, Sherry, Aunt Linda, Ginger, Grandmother, Dolly, Mom Carey, Kristy, Tracy.  It was fun to be able to give the jams and jellies as gifts.  Hopefully they enjoy them as much as I enjoyed making them.  I told Doug I knew I enjoyed canning things, because I caught myself smiling when I was filling jars with the jelly one day.  J
My friend Amy mentioned a Web site called www.myownlabels.com. I created some labels for the jellies and VOILA!  I thought they turned-out super cute!
The list of recipes this year includes:
  • Cider 'n' Spice jelly
  • Carrot cake jam
  • Strawberry jam
  • Strawberry / ginger-ale jam
  • Strawberry margarita jam
  • Grape juice jelly (I hope to make my Grandma Nila's concord grape jelly recipe when concord grapes are in season soon)
  • Lemon / Orange Blossom-Honey Jelly
  • Vanilla-scented pickled sweet cherries (not my favorite.) :(
  • No-sugar Apple Cinnamon Conserve
  • Vidalia onion and maple conserve
  • Charred Chili barbecue sauce
  • Pappasito’s style salsa
  • Black Forest Preserves
  • Blueberry-Maple-Pecan Conserve

I’ve decided, if I ever open a store for jams and jellies, it must be called “Jam On It”.  ;-)
Peace, love and preserving memories,
Shelly, Doug, Ava and Liam

My first attempt at using a pressure canner this year.  Not for jellies, but one more kitchen feat conquered!  :)






Roasting chili peppers